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Original Creation

Please Don’t Take My Babies

rtparsjr 05 Aug 2025

This one’s personal.

My two children were adopted through foster care. During the process, we learned that they were taken from their birth mother — a woman battling severe addiction. At the time, I saw her as someone unfit. But now, years later, as a parent myself, my heart breaks for her. For what she lost. For what addiction stole from her.

This painting is my way of acknowledging that pain — of recognizing my role in it, even if I was on the “right” side of the system.

It’s also a mirror held up to what continues today. Especially on the Rez, where meth and opioids don’t just destroy users — they fracture families, steal children, and unravel entire communities.

This isn’t a political statement. It’s a human one.

And maybe… a prayer for healing

Oils

Comments

Powerful. The expression of despair on the mother’s face hurts my heart. I know too many people, personally who have been affected either themselves or a family member’s addiction. It is a terrible evil.

Thanks Carolyn. I really tried to make that expression come through. I don't know if you noticed, but I also made her reaching hand oversized on purpose to add symbolism.

No Bob, I hadn’t noticed on first look, but now that you pointed it out even the position of the grasping hand feels desperate…. it is an awesome depiction!

Powerful, indeed--well done!

Thanks John!

Hey buddy, that's great painted. Hard story, painful experience. You did it very well. Top work. I wanted to send you an e-mail but don't get any pictures out. I'll try again later. In fact, I painted👀👍🏼🔪🇩🇪

Impressive scene again Bob!

These Rez Life inspired paintings are very powerfull Bob. ❤️
Such sad stories.

Is there a way of showing these to an audience? For raising more awareness?
On the other hand... I guess there is awareness but nothing is done because the people in charge just don't deem it important enough. "It's just those natives" Yuck. :-(
Especially the one that's in charge at the moment won't care.

Thanks Dirk! I got the email. Post that painting. It’s gorgeous!

Thanks Joha!

@Titia - I’m assembling the entire series for a public display at an Indigenous Rights Conference. I hope it gains traction and maybe it’ll be on display somewhere after that.?

Oh, sounds good! ❤️
I also hope it gains traction. ❤️

paintingblondie The Queen of Cuties

Such powerful emotions expressed here! Wonderful work!

So very powerful.

Thank you Sandy. I’m glad I captured them.

Thank you Stephie.

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